The heart of kandrakar says…
Generally, it’s a good idea to entrust our secrets to people we already know well; who are good listeners, and know not to interrupt; who dont pass judgement before hearing all the facts; who treats others with fairness; and who dont feel the need to attract attention to themselves by blabbing our secrets to others.
Sometimes, people we’ve just met inspire our trust right the bat, but remember: A BIT OF CAUTION IS ALWAYS BEST IN THE BEGINNING…